Have you found yourself comparing either yourself or the materials you possess with someone or the materials of them at any point of your life time? Is this really a healthy attitude?
When I mention about comparison, I am not referring to people who compare their intellectual capabilities with someone. Because, when you start comparing the intellectual capability, you may take it in positive way and try to up skill yourself rather trying to be jealous. Jealousy would go nowhere when you start anything intellectually.
Hope I am not distracting the readers much. Let me discuss about the material or character comparison of any individual. We all have friends, may be in different levels of closeness. And, we all are attached to them (based on the level of closeness though). We may compare our friend's achievements, victories, materials, etc with ours. While doing this irrelevant comparison, do we really know how much hard time that each of our friends have faced? Are we all made up of or have same sort of knowledge at all times? Or, do we learn in the cost of time or experience?
Every one among us is different from each other. That is why we are born in this wonderful world with full of treasures and experiences. If some of our friends share some good news about them, that is because they believe that by sharing that news, their happiness would be doubled and our blessings would be there with them forever. It is not like we should start pondering our own life with them. Then, I strongly doubt that relationship or the bondage. If we get or live like others, we don't need to be in this world in first place. We all have different skill set and character with what we should act wise to this world. Just put this compare attitude aside and live your present life to the most. If you perform well in present, your future would be sweet as custard. Don't worry about past....because it is PAST. Gone...who cares?
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